Cheating is whatever you are doing with someone else that you would not want your lover to see.
I just thought I’d remind you of what I just remembered.
Cheating is whatever you are doing with someone else that you would not want your lover to see.
I just thought I’d remind you of what I just remembered.
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Interesting definition for cheating. According to it, my ex boyfriend cheated on me big time just because I was extremely jealous. When in fact, he was just catching up with old friends.
Well… I really think this kinda sums it all up! And it’s so true. It doesn’t matter if it’s holding hands, kissing or a blow job.
Dora, it’s different: when you’re catching up with a friend, you might not want your mate to see you because they’d get hurt. But you’ll still sleep OK at night. That’s not cheating. When you’re catching up with a friend, you don’t want you mate to see you because you’d feel you got caught. Slight difference, eh?
Anda, yes. It’s all in your head, but here’s a pickle: say your boyfriend has nothing against you seeing him bone another girl. Is that cheating or just plain jackassery? ‘Cause it might be both, for you.
I think cheating is also whatever you have in mind regarding other people that you hide from your lover. Don’t get me wrong: I don’t intend to say that your partner should know everything you’re thinking of(that would be sick from both of you), but when you constntly have some kind of dirty thoughts with other persons, this might mean that, somewhere in your unconscious, you’re preparing yourself for doing some cheats.
Ihriel, you are sorta right. In that there’s a limit to the amount of dirty thoughts you can have, while it still being okay.
That limit is dependent on the person, blah-blah. But you usually get to thinking funny thoughts if you keep seeing the said person.
In that case, your behavior might be slightly altered, eh? Good friends pick up on those things.
Or by yourself?
ily, I believe in free masturbation! Be it physical or mental. I do imagine that some people do not, so for them even whacking it is cheating.
What happens when a person that’s pro is dating a person that’s con?
I have no idea! Possibilities are endless, even if they all boil down to: one of them changes OR one of them ‘cheats’.
What’s your take?
Or they break up. Nothing forces two people to have a, let’s call it, romantic relation as long as they don’t share the same values.
And maybe there are other problems or dissatisfactions beyond that…
Ihriel, right you are, but that’s too easy!
But I do agree that two people should have similar values if they’re considering building something stable.
If this is easy, then it should be right. I can’t see any logical reason for building something (stable or not) just for the fun of it.
I`d never get a lover opposed to masturbation. Mine, I couldn`t care less about his.
I was picking up on a bit of subtlety there. By your definition, cheating = conniving rather than betraying.
Also, on a side note, I remember how long ago we agreed upon this, and think it`s nice that we still do.
Ihriel, who said anything about being logical? Remember when you were younger?
ily, you can’t cherry-pick your subtlety in this case: you need a third party. You need to actually do something, or rather, conniving in that you do not refrain from doing something you know you shouldn’t do.
And on your side note: what’s nice is being bothered by IM`s while writing down this comment. IM`s from you, no less.
Oh… Of course I remember of beying younger and I can’t stop smilling (but then were pretty much childish stuff). Damn it! That old I am?
Ihriel, I like to keep my relationships as far away from logic as I can, at first. It’s all in the gut. As soon as I start thinking things through, it all falls to shit. When it comes to loving, cheating, holding back from jumping a girl, logic is the last thing on my mind.
I let how I feel drive me, and I’ll deal with the consequences later. If I need to think about whether I am cheating on my girlfriend or not, I’m probably in deep trouble already.
Also, if I need to think whether I want to kiss someone or not, I probably don’t want it bad enough.
Logic can merely help you realize that you should act on your feelings, or gut, or what have you, when it comes to this kind of things.
Good plea for feelings, though it sounds more like an utopia
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Pacat ca nu ai spus si motivul sau motivele pentru care ti-ai amintit definitia inselatului , ar fi fost comic (cred).
Oricum, definitia pare pertinenta si adevarata, insa din pacate, de multe ori, cu toate ca suna putin silly ,”it’s not what it looks like” , chiar nu este what it looks like si atunci ies o gramada de probleme aiurea fara sa fie nevoie.