It’s funny how the human mind works, really. But the female mind is simply fascinating!
Some people are results driven. They don’t like mistaking motion for action. They like finality, and are willing to go to extreme lengths just to see that happen. They make for great executives.
It’s funny that woman executives are more efficient than men in the same position. It’s funny because women really like mistaking motion for action. For them, it’s not about the end result. There might never even be a finality to their game.
Apparently, women really appreciate being wanted. And just that. When they catch on to a guy that fancies them, they will live in that bubble for as long as they can. It’s amazing to witness.
The best part is their genetic coding, which makes them yearn for stability — a nice, constantly safe environment to bring up the kids. It’s usually the good guys that project this sort of image. So, it’s quite understandable why they like feeling wanted by a nice, good guy. Or two, or three. Nothing needs to happen, though. It’s all motion, not action.
Women like getting bonuses. So they really dig it when one o’ them bad guys acts like he’s interested. Bad guys are just sexy, and dangerous, and wrong. But women love it. The perspective passion adds so much value that they overlook the instability that would come with such a relationship. Not to say that there will be a relationship. Whether that happens or not is irrelevant, so long as the woman feels desired.
But here’s the fun part: women love it when a bad guy, seems like he does not want them. Moreover, he seems to be making a point about how they do not want them. The girl’s reaction is sometimes the same one as when the bad dude does want them. This time, there’s no prospect of a stable relationship that would be good for their offspring. There’s no real promise of passion, either. There are no compliments to fuel the girl’s ego. But said girl is excited nonetheless.
What happens is: the woman’s brain tricks her into believing the bad guy does, in fact, want her. Just that he might be playing bastard, which is the male version of playing hard to get. She will go ahead and do things that all women do: distorting reality to match her own ideas, see things that are not there as well as ignore whatever bit of information does not bode well with her fantasy.
Some women like to feel wanted, even if in their own imagination.
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I think women just like the idea of having many options open because they know that when they do settle down (and for them that does not by any means imply “settling”), it will be for good.
Most males go by instincts, whereas women are highly rational creatures. That`s why in long relationships or marriages you often hear men say “I could have had any woman in the world, *but* I chose you.”. A woman`s version of that would be “I could have had any man in the world, *and* I chose you.”.
If you ask me, women rationalize a lot, sometimes even too much. That`s why they are less likely to regret, less likely to cheat, and more likely to try and salvage what they have.
ily, it’s not just about settling. Women are wired to be sedentary, yes, but they also have a stupid gene that tells them to fight for the status quo. This is why a woman is less likely to quit her job ( again, you girls fascinate me )
This makes me think about the fear of uncertainty, a shyness with respect to the great unknown. In essence, fear of risk. Sometimes, diving head first pays off and sometimes it kills you, yeah. But, for me, not knowing what might have been, and knowing I missed out because I pussied out — well, that seems awful. And this male-ish trait translates into other businesses too.. but I digress.
If you say women are racking up options, I say they’re doing it to get the feeling of safety, of their making a choice, an informed decision. But, if you’re playing a number’s game, you must remember that he who has the best imagination wins.
So, is it all in your head?
Yes – generally speaking, women are most definitely pussies, and facing change is our biggest ordeal. That`s why it was so easy to push us around for such a long time. We weren`t happy with our position, but we were familiar with any shortcomings, could foresee them, and, best of all, already knew the solution beforehand. Why step into the great unknown then? Because who knows, it might just turn out to be worse.
It ain`t easy being a pussy, y`know. What comes naturally for you guys is something we have to work and train ourselves for. You should appreciate us more for our balls, on the rare occasion when we do use them.
“Women [...] also have a stupid gene that tells them to fight for the status quo”.
According to your affirmation, a genetical analysis can reveal that this “stupid gene” is located on the sexual chromosomes of female (“X”). What you didn’t take into account is that males also have an “X” chromosome (and “Y” as well), with high chances to be the one with “the gene”.
What I was trying to say with my introduction is that men can also fight for their status quo. Guys who don’t want to grow up, who run away from responsabilities, who stick to harmful relations… maybe they are not the best example, but they are so familiar in whatever they do for not losing it.
ily, you know I like ballsy women, but your numbers are little. And even the ballsy ones need this illusion of having options.
Yes, you had it harder. Yes, you are the mocking stock of most religions. Yes, you generally stick to what you know. So you cannot always rely on reality to make you smile. Thus, you need a wild imaginaiton which you project onto us…
Is that the rationale?
Makes a lot of sense, yes.
Ihriel, what you just said could be interpreted as us males having a little extra. I’m really not feeling like going down that lane.
Granted, males enjoy preserving the status quo as well. But you examples can be equally applied to women. It’s just that we don’t make a stereotype out of it.
Statistically, men drive change more than women. Women try to bring things to a place known to them. You can see this by paying attention when going out in a big group too.
I really don’t think men have something extra because of their genes. Not even women.
What we don’t see about these gender differences is that males and females are, or at least they sould be, designed to complete each other.
The example of men driving change, while women like to keep things to their familiar borders, should be just fine, because, in that case, they are unwilling to compete against each other. Basically, no one is able to enjoy change in any of its shapes and no one is so pleased with what he has that you want to remain with it forever.
it’s quite easy actually…
sex gives a temporary pleasure… but knowing that you are wanted gives a longer moment of euphoria
besides, I think this doesn’t always apply to women, since men need to be wanted just as bad. just not as many
increases the self esteem
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well, I don’t get it. it’s nice being wanted, but if noone approches you, it’s like you’re just god to look at… so, wanted and “haded”, that the way to go
Ihriel, I so love that bit about men and women needing to complete each other!
crinutza, yes, men like to be desired as well. The difference is that they like to cash in on that. Meaning: sex might be a simple, short-lived pleasure, but it’s more pleasureful. Plus, you can do it again, and again, and again…
Anda, you get five points for thinking like a man! That’s my girl!
Please, let me start with this: =)))))) you know why.
But still, there’s nothing you cand o about it. 
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Second: you deserve an award, you just wrote down the understanding of a woman’s mind. Guys will love you.
Tomata,
and, guys may love me for this, but I would like to point out that no guy has made a comment on this post.
@Horia : were they supposed to?
Crinutza, I enjoy supporting gender equality, you know?
This is what i wrote some time ago:
I stick with trying not more than twice. I always talk to you twice, I always give two messages, I always go out with you twice, even if it looks like a lost cause. I’m giving the benefit of a doubt: maybe you are tired, you have other plans, you have an antisocial day, you had a bad day, but after that I’m a man. I’m bothered by the fact that i don’t get any feedback, but not for more than 24 hours. I’m taking a step back and change my direction. Life is to short to waste it waiting for somebody around the corner.
The fun part is that this text can be applied in a guy/girl situation just the same
a least in my world
Daciana, you got your reply